January 2013 Coach Corey Wayne discusses why a woman will break up with you and tell you that she still loves you, but date and sleep with other men days or weeks after your breakup, when you’re still licking your wounds. I you’re the one getting dumped and it wasn’t your choice, you messed up. I doesn’t matter what you say, if you get dumped, it’s your fault. Now, you need to take some personal responsibility. If she loss interest in you, it may have been different if you did things right, in the first place. It’s up to you to be sure you keep some level of interest in your relationship, if you want it to work.